Matt and I had been together for two years, and things were mostly great… except for one ongoing obstacle: his mother, Diane.
She carried herself with that polished, old-school elegance, the kind that made people lean in — and hid her passive-aggressive digs behind a sweet smile. I’d always tried to be polite, thinking I could win her over.
On Matt’s birthday, we arrived at a cozy Italian restaurant where his family was already seated. Diane had “reserved” the seat next to him with her purse. I didn’t think much of it until she leaned over mid-menu, smirked, and said, “Scooch, sweetie,” motioning for me to move so she could sit beside him.
Everyone laughed, including Matt. My cheeks burned as I slid away, watching her drape herself over him like a boy instead of a grown man. I left before dessert.
Later, I got texts from both of them saying I was “too sensitive” and “couldn’t take a joke.” So I invited the family to my place the following weekend, promising an apology. When they walked in, there were two tables: one large, set beautifully for the group, and a tiny one in the corner for just Matt and his mom — complete with a framed photo of the two of them and a glittery sign that read, MOM AND HER TREASURE SEATS ONLY. I greeted them warmly: “Don’t worry, you won’t be separated tonight.”
Diane actually laughed. Matt… not so much.
That night, he broke up with me over text, accusing me of being petty. I replied, “I can take a joke — I dated you this long.” Then I poured myself a glass of wine and enjoyed, for the first time in a while, a table all to myself.