I’ve been a manager for almost six years, and I always thought I was fair. Strict, maybe, but fair. Rules are rules, and if I make exceptions for one person, then where does it stop? That’s what I told myself when I fired Celia last week.
She was late again—third time this month. Our policy is clear: three strikes, you’re out. She barely said a word when I called her into my office. Just nodded, grabbed her bag, and left without arguing. That should’ve been the first sign something was off.
Later that afternoon, I overheard two coworkers whispering. “Did you hear about Celia’s son?” one asked. “Yeah,” the other sighed. “Poor kid. She’s been sleeping in her car with him.”
My stomach dropped.
I pulled one of them aside. “What do you mean ‘sleeping in her car’?”
Turns out, Celia had been evicted a month ago. Her ex disappeared, no child support, no family around. She’d been working double shifts when she could, but most shelters were full, so she and her six-year-old had been living in her car. She was late those mornings because she had to drive across town to a church that let them shower before she dropped him off at school.
I felt sick.
I went home that night and couldn’t stop thinking about it. She wasn’t late because she was irresponsible. She was late because she was trying to survive. And I had just made her situation worse.
The next morning, I called her. She didn’t pick up. I texted. Nothing.
So I found the last address we had on file and drove there. It was a run-down apartment complex, but the manager told me she’d been evicted weeks ago.
Now I’m sitting in my car, searching online for any way to reach her. I don’t even know if she still has her phone.
I have a job for her if she wants it. More than that—I want to help.
But what if I’m too late?
I don’t know how long I sat there, staring at my phone, but I finally made a decision. I needed to find her. I started calling around, checking shelters, food banks, anywhere she might have gone for help. Most places couldn’t give out personal information, but one woman at a church downtown hesitated when I mentioned Celia’s name.
“She was here two nights ago,” the woman said. “She picked up some food and blankets. That’s all I know.”
It wasn’t much, but it was something. I drove downtown and parked near the church. If she’d been here, maybe she wasn’t too far. I walked the streets, looking into parked cars, feeling like a creep. I was about to give up when I spotted an old sedan in a grocery store lot. The windows were fogged up, and a small face peeked out from under a blanket in the back seat.
My heart clenched.
I knocked lightly on the window. A moment later, Celia sat up in the driver’s seat, eyes wary. When she recognized me, her face went blank.
“Celia, I’m so sorry,” I blurted out. “Please, let me help.”
She hesitated, then rolled the window down a crack. “Help?” Her voice was flat. “Like how you helped last week?”
I deserved that.
“I didn’t know,” I admitted. “I should have asked. I should have seen it. But I just followed the rules instead of looking at the person in front of me.”
She didn’t say anything. Her son shifted in the back, curling under the blanket.
“Come back to work,” I said. “Please. Your job is still yours if you want it. And not just that—I want to help you get back on your feet.”
She let out a hollow laugh. “Help how? With a paycheck that barely covers rent?”
I swallowed hard. She was right. I couldn’t just give her a job and expect everything to be okay.
“I can do more,” I said. “I have connections. My cousin manages an apartment complex—they have a unit open. I can help you get in, no deposit needed. And there are programs that can help with food and childcare. I can call people, find out what resources are available.”
She stared at me. “Why?”
“Because I messed up,” I said. “Because I was so focused on the rules that I forgot to be human. And because you don’t deserve this. Neither does he.”
She looked back at her son, then at me. Her shoulders trembled.
“Okay,” she whispered.
The next few weeks were a whirlwind. I kept my promise. My cousin got her into the apartment. My company agreed to increase her pay slightly, and I pulled every string I could to get her access to assistance programs. It wasn’t a perfect solution, but it was a start.
One afternoon, she walked into my office. “I wanted to say thank you,” she said. “Not just for the job. For seeing me.”
“I should have seen you from the start,” I admitted.
She smiled, and for the first time, it reached her eyes.
That night, I sat in my car and thought about how close I had come to making an unforgivable mistake. We get so caught up in policies and procedures that we forget people aren’t just numbers on a spreadsheet. Everyone has a story, and sometimes, all they need is someone to listen.
If there’s one thing I learned from all this, it’s that kindness shouldn’t come with conditions. And sometimes, breaking the rules is the right thing to do.
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